The guy your dating seldom calls
I came back from my trip and the third date was on Thursday, which happened to be Valentine’s Day, and he made dinner for me. But the next day was Friday and he didnt text me until I asked him what he was up to.
He said he was going grab dinner with friends and go somewhere after.
I’m posting this letter as a “Your Turn,” without commentary from me, but LW asked specifically for guys’ perspective on this question, so while you women are welcome to chime in, I’d love to hear a chorus of men’s voices tell her what’s what.
I’m a Japanese girl who recently dated a 27-year-old doctor I met online.
These women are all dating after 40…some in their 60s and 70s. They had one date three weeks prior, and since it’s only been texting. Texting has certainly complicated dating and relationships.
“Sue” connected with a man on Tinder, they had a couple emails, and then he started texting. I’m going to give you some straight scoop about what texting really means and doesn’t mean.
This nervousness might make you call him agzm to ask, "Is everything okay? Only call him back right away if it's a scheduling change regarding an upcoming date or event; not just to chat.
I’ve seen countless women create complete fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man. With no tonality in messages, texting back and forth creates enormous opportunities to misread and misunderstand intent.
I can’t tell you how many emails I’ve received from coaching clients with a text conversation pasted in and the question: What do you think he means (aka WTF)????
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